Once you have been able to enjoy a basic orgasmic experience–this means clitoral orgasms by yourself and with a partner, and g-spot orgasms as well–you can, if you choose, begin to delve into the deeper mystical experiences and states of bliss that your sexuality can provide.
This happens naturally in a culture where you do not have any guilt and shame around your sexuality and when your energy can flow freely in your body and you have open communication with your partner.
This is very seldom the case, however.
Tantric or daoist lovemaking are some of the ways that you can more deeply explore your sexuality both alone and with a partner.
Various breathing patterns, energetic meditations, and consciousness-raising exercises can assist you in going deeper into these practices.
If you are not sure where to start, feel free to contact me with a bit of your story and I can point you in the right direction.