‘ If I use logical language I become aggressive upon your mind. I try to convince you, to convert you, to make a puppet of you. My argument is ”right” and you are ”wrong.” Logical language is egocentric: ”I am right and you are wrong, so I must prove that I am right and you are wrong.” I am not concerned with you, I am concerned with my ego. My ego is always ”right.”
Love language is totally different. I am not concerned with my ego; I am concerned with you. I am not concerned to prove something, to strengthen my ego. I am concerned to help you. It is a compassion to help you to grow, to help you to transform, to help you to be reborn.’
This is one of the core, most powerful teachings of tantra. It is that we move within a completely different sphere when we are moving within the language of love. The energy of love. The experience of love.
It is not about who is right, who is wrong. Who has the best arguments and who has not very good arguments. It is about connecting.
Realization of the oneness. Connection.